Friday, February 28, 2025

Week 9

Jan 5, 2025 

Dear Gracie,


Happy Sabbath!  Today was our first week with church at noon.  Teenagers loved it.  I prefer 10:30, as did the one year old Richards twins behind us, who were missing their naps.  But we got to cuddle them for a while, until they both just preferred being with their mom.  Dad had to leave for Mississippi early in the morning, so we're without him for a couple days.  I had Emma with me in Primary, for the first week with our new class.  I'm actually co-teaching with Dad, and we have my class from last year plus the other half of the kids that age.  It had been split before, but because there are so many Primary kids needing classrooms, they joined our age (the 6-turning-7 year olds) back together.  We have 15 kids, and all except one are active, though today we only had 10 there (plus the grandpa of our sweet autistic boy).  Our classroom was full, but it wasn't chaotic, as I feared it might be.  It will be an adventure this year, for sure!

On Monday, it was our Stake's turn to provide music for the Giving Machine in McKinney, and back in November Sis. Reese asked our family if we could sing carols for 30 minutes.  Well, plans changed and Dad ended up being in Utah, Benson was at his Winter Camp, and Scott and Kaitlyn were already back in Utah too, so I asked Joseph's family if they could join us, and thankfully they could!  When we arrived, there was maybe one person there who was not a volunteer, so I was glad we wouldn't have much of an audience, but as we sang, more and more people showed up to use the machines, until there were about 20 non volunteers.  We were just singing the Christmas hymns acapella (Michael was so cute holding his own hymn book very seriously with the rest of us), but I think it turned out nicely.  After singing and then using the giving machines, we walked down the street and had pizza together.  It was really a great way to end our Christmas activities.

On Tuesday (New Year's Eve!) we (as you know) got to spend a lot of time with you on your call.  It was fun watching the fireworks there, looking into your secret cupboard, and playing the letter game with you.  It's amazing that you got to meet up with G&G Danielson in Hamburg!  The bombed out church and the wave roof building looked so interesting.  Dad got home early in the morning, and Benson got back from his camp at about noon.  (He had a pretty good trip, except for the storms one day, which forced everyone to shelter in place for five hours.  Benson was in a small woodshop with a lot of other people, but he said they played card games and made the best of the situation.  His things didn't get wet, because he had put his tent on a platform.)  The Havenars invited us over for fireworks in the evening, starting at about 7 pm.  If you've never gone to their house, it's directly across the street from Lavon Lake, so we set them off in the road and they went up over the water.  It was fun to watch the fireworks all around the lake, too.  The night was a bit chilly, but we had hot chocolate and a fire to keep us warm.  We visited until about 10 and came back home to warm up and watch Harry Potter.  (The kids are trying to get through all eight movies during the break.)  They didn't want to stop the movie at midnight, so we just wished each other a happy new year, and I went to bed while everyone else finished the movie.

On Wednesday, everyone slept in and we totally forgot about the Rose Parade until the next day!  And actually, two of the kids said, "What's the Rose Parade?"  So I guess that tradition is not a notable one over here any more.  We wished Timmy Happy Birthday (he's 8!), cleaned up the Christmas decorations, and then we drove Tessa out to Brei's house, and Dad, Emma, Caytie, Benson and I went to Rockwall to play disc golf.  The weather was pretty good and it wasn't overly muddy.  It was really nice to be outside walking around.  We had Mod Pizza for dinner.

Thursday, Friday, and Saturday were the lovely mushy days where you can't keep track of anything.  Benson had a couple percussion lessons with Jeffrey Porter.  Tessa finished her online drivers permit test, so now we can gather all the paperwork and set up her appointment.  Caytie finally got bored enough to work on her art, and we cleaned out her room and the coat closet.  Emma gathered all her things to prepare to go back to Idaho.  We had the missionaries over for dinner.  (They're the same ones that were here when you left!  They like to keep track of how you're doing.)  I had piano students show up, as they were supposed to, but I had forgotten.  Thankfully we hadn't gone anywhere at that time and I was able to hurry and put on real clothes to give them their lessons.  Dad mowed the lawn and put all the stuff out for bulk pick up.  The weather dropped from 50 degrees on Saturday to 28 degrees currently (Sunday evening), with a really, really cold wind.  We found our Christmas tree had blown into the street after church today, so we stuck it between some things so it would stay until the bulk trash gets picked up.  Hopefully it works.

Funny story--  we have been getting ready to start school on Monday, but today I got a message from a piano family asking if we had lessons on Monday since there was no school.  I checked, and sure enough, Monday is a teacher development day, so the kids don't go back until Tuesday!  I didn't tell them until we were on the way to church.  I asked if they were ready for school on Monday, and they all said, "NO!!!"  I said, "Well, that's okay--you can stay home and go back on Tuesday!"  I am really glad we figured it out before seminary on Monday morning, which is supposed to be really cold.  Everyone's excited about their "bonus" day off.  (Well, Emma and I are still getting up early to head to the airport for her journey back to BYUI.)

We love you, Gracie!  I hope you have the best day, week, January, and year that you've had yet!  And even on the days that don't feel like the best (because there are a lot), you can look for and count the little blessings, because there are always some somewhere.

Love, 
Mom



76 degrees while performing outside?  Yes, please.  But those 30 degree days??  Yikes.











Fireworks (I promise ☺)

Grandma and Grandpa Danielson visiting Gracie in Hamburg!!


Disc golf on a crowded course.  It was a lovely first-day-of-the-year afternoon, though!









Week 7 and 8

Dec 29, 2024 

Dear Gracie,


I'm switching to writing on Sundays, since your new P-day is Tuesday, and hopefully you'll be able to read my letters before we talk.  Next week we'll be changing to a later church time, so I hope to be able to keep it up!

We finished up the Christmas concerts with Tessa's band and the Stake Light the World concert. It's getting harder and harder to sing in that concert, because I get teary for every song!  But it's still a wonderful way to prepare for Christmas, and the children's choir turned out better than expected (one key girl who had been a major distraction at every practice was sick for the concert, so that kind of helped), and in the end I was grateful to be able to play the piano for them.  Dad's viola part turned out great, too.  I love that we got to worship our Savior through music.

On Wednesday Dad took the day off of work for my birthday.  Dad gave me a new bookshelf scene to put together (and I may need to get a bookcase just for the ones I've done! 😁).  We went for a walk together and then went to the AT&T store to get a new phone for me, but the salesperson said I should wait until the new phones are released early next year, because I'd get a better trade-in deal.  So that gift is on hold.  We went out for lunch at Texas Steakhouse and used a gift card we'd received, and it was soooooo good!  I had a school district meeting in the afternoon, then we had a light dinner and a Nothing Bundt Cakes chocolate peppermint chunk cake (soooooo good!), and went to a ward choir practice (where I received music for a musical number the young men would be singing on Sunday). The best present of the day was talking with you, and seeing that you made it safely to GERMANY!  I love to be able to see you on my map (and it was super fun to wake up at 5 am and see you in Paris on your layover!), and video calls are a wonderful thing.  My momma heart was put at ease.

My preschool class had their Christmas show on Thursday, which mostly turned out well, though I never know how kids will react when in front of a crowd--most handled it better than others.  That afternoon I took Caytie to the orthodontist.  Her old one retired (without notice), but we got the good news from the new one that she gets to get her braces off at her next visit.  Tessa is not far behind--yay!  Dad picked up Scott and Kaitlyn from the airport in the afternoon and later went to get Emma, so we had a full house again that night.

Friday morning was full of piano lessons and then Scott, Kaitlyn, Emma and I got some Panda Express before the other kids came home early from school.  We decorated gingerbread cake houses once everyone was home.  I'm pretty sure we spent the rest of the day watching Christmas movies--oh, and "Dune."  S&K went to the McKneely's for the rest of the weekend.

On Saturday we were able to go to the temple for a baptism session.  It's always great to be there, but it helped me to put some perspective on the Christmas season.  I was helping with witnessing, and felt a spiritual closeness when a couple names were read.  I wonder how long they had been waiting for their Christmas gift of baptism.  We also had a practice for the young men's musical number (that I'm accompanying), a percussion lesson for Benson, a mandolin lesson for me, a birthday party for Tessa and Caytie to attend, and the Music and Donuts night with the Matheneys.  

Sunday was our Christmas Sacrament Meeting.  For the program, the Denny family narrated with scriptures with musical numbers between them.  The choir sang a beautiful arrangement of  "O Come, O Come Emmanuel"  (Caytie and I sang, and Dad accompanied on his viola).  The Primary sang a new song, "If I Were There," with sign language, and it was so sweet.  PS--our Primary is HUGE again.  The young men sang "We Three Kings" and Dad and I did "The First Noel" on the viola and mandolin.  (It went all right.  They keep asking us to do musical things, so I guess the fact that we aren't perfect is not a deterrent.  I appreciate the challenge and the opportunity to practice, but not always the performance aspect of it.)  The congregation sang a couple songs, as well.  I love to think of different names of Jesus, especially during the Sacrament, when thinking about taking upon His name.  My favorite one for Christmas is Emmanuel--"God with us."  I'm grateful to believe that He IS here, with us-- with me.  It's the best Christmas message.  We decorated (and ate) Christmas cookies that afternoon.

Monday (Christmas Adam!) was Six Flags day.  I realized, however, that Christmas was in two days and I had yet to start wrapping, so I opted to stay home to finish all the "magic" that needed to be done.  Dad took Emma, Caytie, Tessa, Benson, and Anna Baker, and they met up with Scott, Kaitlyn, Lindsey, Adam Corless, and Joseph's family.  They said it was pretty crowded, but they rode most of what they wanted to.  Sadly, there were no singing reindeer this year.

Christmas Eve was rainy, which made us all want to stay home and be cozy (hyggelig, for you Danish speakers).  We did have to venture out to get sibling gifts, but the rest of the day was spent chatting with you, watching Christmas movies, snacking on treats, and making some crafts.  I made bread bowls and soups (potato corn chowder and apple butternut squash) for dinner, and then the kids exchanged gifts, we had a small Christmas devotional, watched "Dune 2" (everyone's favorite Christmas Eve movie?!?), and then headed to bed.  A funny moment--Dad had been telling everyone about the trap with a trip wire and an alarm he set up for catching Santa one year which failed, but later this evening after "Santa" set out gifts and took a picture of the tree, an ornament that Tessa got from the Young Women ornament exchange, which has a light sensor which triggers a Christmas song, went off.  We heard a lot of giggling from upstairs as they heard the unintended Santa trap work.

And then it was Christmas morning!  Benson was definitely the most excited, and did his best to ramp everyone else to his level.  We made it until 7:30 before getting up to join everyone with stockings and then gifts.  We have been very blessed and it's fun to share surprises.  Dad made aebleskivers and we had hot chocolate, and later crackers, cheese, and sausage to snack on.  We got to chat with you again and my parents in Denmark.  Scott and Kaitlyn went to her family's home for the second half of the day, and the rest of us enjoyed another cozy day at home.

The big event for the 26th was Caytie and Tessa's Eagle Court of Honor--hooray!  We made some eagle cupcakes (marshmallow covered in white chocolate and dipped in coconut, with caramel beaks and frosting eyes) and had a hot chocolate bar.  Dad put the program and slide show together, and Caytie and Tessa made a display table of all the scout things they've made and collected.  Emma and Benson were part of the flag ceremony with the troop, and Scott and Kaitlyn helped set up the food.  It was a nice evening, and I'm proud of everyone involved.  (We missed having you in the Eagle's Nest. 🥹)  We went out to eat dinner at Cotton Patch Café to celebrate.

On Friday, Benson left for Winter Scout Camp and Dad left for Utah for Grandma and Grandpa Roper's mission farewell.  Caytie and Tessa had arranged to go to Six Flags with some friends (Liam and Audrey Smith), and since I hadn't gone on Monday (was it only on Monday that they went???), I volunteered to drive, and took Emma as my partner.  I thought we might split up, but we all stayed together all day.  We got there when it opened and rode Runaway Mountain (with the Yeti and Christmas music!) and Mr. Freeze (5 minute wait!) and Batman, and then the rest of the crowds showed up.  Long lines for the rest of the day, and Titan was closed.  We waited 1.5 hours for the Texas Giant, and it closed for technical difficulties right before we headed up the stairs!  We decided to wait ten more minutes, and right at the end of that, they ran two test runs and opened up the ride again.  Hooray!  We got in a couple more rides, including Mr. Freeze again, before heading home.  We saw La Vibora half-way dismantled, which was weird.  We're excited to see what replaces it, though.

On Saturday I had a piano recital for my students.  I was nervous, since we hadn't had lessons for the week before, but they all stepped up and performed well (minus one girl, who had not practiced, and her mom wanted her to experience the consequence of that choice).  I'm losing one student and gaining two more in January, bringing my total up to 18 students.

Today was the last Sunday of the year.  Bishop Matheney gave a really nice talk about standing firm in holy places this year.  Of course, we would have loved to be in Utah for Grandma and Grandpa's farewell talk, but we were happy to watch the recording, especially of Dad performing with all of his siblings.

This letter has gone on for much too long!  I'm glad we have a week of quiet before jumping back into real life again.  We look forward to talking with you again!

Love,
Mom
Kaitlyn had some connections through her work at the air conditioning office and was able to drop off a package to Gracie at the MTC in person!

Tessa's Christmas Concert!

Hicken's Ugly Sweater Party!  Ben got first place again!







Happy birthday to me!  The best present was knowing Gracie made it safely to Germany, and getting to talk with her, too!








Preschool Christmas show on the 19th!



Gingerbread houses--with Emma and Scott and Kaitlyn!








Matheney donuts and carols party--Ben loves it!



Someone took a picture of us playing in church!  Shhh!

Sunday afternoon Christmas cookies!






Christmas Eve


Christmas!












Scott and Kaitlyn joined the McKneelys for the rest of the day, and they went to The Giving Machine in McKinney, which Kaitlyn's mom had had a large part in organizing.



Missing Gracie 💗

Trying his make-your-own-gummy-fast-food kit

Eagles!  Separate post to come...

Six Flags!  Shock Wave

Texas Giant

La Vibora 😢



Ben's family performing in church

Shenanigans in the kitchen

Tessa's henna skills keep improving!