Wednesday, October 28, 2026

Week 64

 Jan 26, 2026

Dear Gracie,


We're in the middle of the January Ice Storm of 2026--brrr!  There is a huge winter storm over much of the United States right now with very low temperatures (it's been in the teens here, though today it warmed up to a balmy 32 degrees)--except the Utah/Idaho/northwestern part of the States.  No (much needed) snow for them, unfortunately.  But let me back up a little.

The first part of the week was standard.   On Tuesday the kids went back to school and Dad and I went back to work.  I tried an experiment for preschool that flopped (mixing salt in water to make things float), but the kids had fun stirring and dropping things into the water, so they didn't notice the fail.  (Pro tip: don't tell them what is supposed to happen in case it doesn't.)  With the weather predictions, people started panic shopping, so the stores got cleaned out of basic foods and emergency supplies.  I had already shopped on Monday, and was fairly confident we'd have enough for any delays.

Benson was asked to join the school's jazz band to help with the drumset.  He doesn't know a lot about jazz, but he can keep the rhythm.  It adds a morning and afternoon practice, so now with his tennis and his other band sectional, he has to stay after school every day except Thursday, which is the day he goes early.  I've driven him a few times, but he prefers to ride his bike when the weather is good so he doesn't have to wait for me to be done with piano lessons.

Tessa decided she needed another day home from school on Friday. 🙂  Since she has been working hard and is never sick, I figured she could have a "mental health day" and she used a lot of it sleeping and then studying for a couple tests.  The weather was predicted to turn bad that afternoon, though it had already been raining throughout the morning.  Dad was able to come home early, after stopping at Walmart for milk, though they didn't have any and he had to go to Tom Thumb.  He picked up Benson and then some pizza, and we were ready to hunker down for the storm!  The temperature dropped noticeably and it started raining tiny ice balls, which continued all through the night.  We had a fun surprise when someone knocked on our door, and we found a locked box, with a message for Tessa.  She had to try several combinations with different boys' names connected to each to find which worked, and that was who was asking her to the Church Winter Formal (Mormon Prom 😉).  (The note said, "Crack the code and I think we'd make a great combination to the dance.")  Turns out it was Tyler Hicken!  Inside the box were some chocolate covered pretzels, which she had told me earlier that day was her favorite treat (when Tyler's mom texted me to ask).

The temperature dropped all night, so the rain froze, and in a lot of the country, the ice and cold temps were much, much worse than it was here.  Thankfully the ice didn't really accumulate on tree branches or wires, so not a lot of people around here lost power.  It did, however, accumulate on the roads and the rest of the ground.  All the little ice balls, which continued to fall most of the day, gathered together and solidified into a giant ice sheet, making traveling pretty dangerous.  We got notice that church and school for Monday (today) and Tuesday would be cancelled, since temperatures wouldn't get warm enough to melt the ice off the roads until Tuesday (we hope--and it's looking like that will be true).  So Saturday turned into a pretty lazy day.  Benson was supposed to have friends over for D&D, but he convinced Tessa to play with him (though it was just creating a character).  Dad got the Wii working again, so that was a trip down memory lane.  We were supposed to have the elders over for dinner.  They're on bikes, and texted to say that they had been told they couldn't ride their bikes in the storm, so if Brother Roper was willing to pick them up, they could come.  We texted back that Brother Roper didn't feel comfortable driving on the ice, and confirmed that they did have enough food to feed themselves.  We'll have them over on another day...

On Sunday, the ground was covered with ice, with a layer of gritty ice balls, providing traction if you tried to walk.  It varied in depth, from an inch or so to five or six, where it drifted, but it was all solid and slick.  Dad took Benson over to the pond to slide down the hill a couple times (we take our sledding opportunities when we can--though Tessa and I opted out, as it was bitterly cold for us) until the tubes popped.  We had been given permission to hold Sacrament Meeting at home, so after people warmed up and showered, we had our small church service.  We had a gentle snowfall all day.  That afternoon Tessa made homemade pretzels, which she and Dad walked over to the Hickens house to answer Tyler.  (Her sign said, "Tyler, I'd be twisted to say no.  You've unlocked a yes from me!")  Even though he would know who it was from, she opted to ring the bell and hide, and slipped a couple times running around to the side of their house. (Since they live on a hill in a cul-de-sac, she didn't want to run down the street.)  Dad was there waiting, and the neighbor, who had seen them on his ring camera, came out and yelled at them, wondering what they were doing.  So it wasn't a very secret operation, but it was an adventure!

So now it's Monday, and things are still cold (though warming, as I mentioned) and ice is beginning to melt, though it will refreeze through the night, so I think it was the right call to cancel school for tomorrow.  I bundled up and took a walk around the neighborhood (I love my snow boots!).  Dad worked from home.  Tessa and Benson played games and the Switch (and even a little piano!).  Maybe tomorrow we'll get serious and do the things we've been putting off all weekend.  (Mount Laundry is calling...)  There are still people in the country suffering from much colder temperatures and no power, so we are grateful that for this storm, we've been able to be warm, cozy, fed, and safe.  (It has already dropped to 28 degrees as I've been writing this letter.)  (Have I used enough parentheses in this paragraph??)

Does Germany ever get icy?

I hope you've had a warm, cozy, safe week, and that you've been fed some awesome German food.  Write down recipes when you can!  Don't lose your gloves!  Drink some hot chocolate!

We love you, Gracie!  Have a wonderful week. ❤️
Mom























Week 63

 Jan 19, 2026

Dear Gracie,

Let's see...it was kind of a quiet week again.  Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday were standard.  Benson finished building his wooden pinball machine, and it's pretty fun--it has lights and music and counts your score.  I went to my book club on Thursday night--yay!  Dad came home on Friday afternoon (YAY!!!) and then he, Benson, and I went to Plano to watch Tessa's All Region concert, and we grabbed some food together.  Dad realized that he needed to do some work by a deadline, and had left his laptop at home, so he had to go back.  Benson and I enjoyed the concert, and once again, I was impressed with how much Tessa and the other students can learn in one and a half days.  Dad got back just as we were ready to leave.  He was sad to miss it, but we listened to the recordings on the way home.  Saturday was not too busy.  We had lessons and cleaned around the house and puttered around.  Dad and I went to the Hickens' in the evening to do some planning for our trip to get you (SO EXCITED!).  Sunday was nice--Tessa had a meeting before church and after church, and we went to choir and the Spanish class and the youth fireside (a broadcast from the General youth leaders about the new year's theme "Walk With Me") while Benson and Dad went to a Court of Honor, where Benson was presented with his Life rank.  I made some honey ginger glazed tilapia for dinner which was so yummy I'm going to make it again this week.

Today is MLK Jr. day, so there was no school, and Dad took the day off.  Tessa and I went for a walk in the morning (we decided we need to someday recreate the scout bench picture from the first campout!) while Dad went to a doctor appointment, then Dad and Benson went to play disc golf while Tessa babysat and I did food shopping and laundry.  Dad, Benson, and I played Wingspan in the afternoon.  It's nice to have a day off, but it makes it hard to go back on Tuesday.

Hmm--I wish I had more details for you.  I have enjoyed learning more about the creation from my Come Follow Me reading and podcast listening.  How does this story from ancient times apply to me?  There are a lot of people with some great insights and I'm grateful I can learn from them.  The world is a beautiful place.  Everything is perfectly designed.  Chaos to order.  Let there be Light.

Have a wonderful week, Gracie.  Expect miracles, Sister!

Love,
Mom









Week 62

 Jan 12, 2026

Dear Gracie,


Well, we're back to our regular routines.  Dad left for Mississippi on Tuesday last week and will be gone until Friday this week, so it's a longer than usual trip.  Caytie also left on Tuesday afternoon to return back to Utah.  She, Scott, Kaitlyn, and Emma started their classes during the week.  We miss all of them.  The rest of us (me, Tessa, and Benson) are here just doing seminary, school, preschool, piano, youth activities, band, etc.  

GREAT NEWS!  Tessa finished her (second) drivers ed online course!  Now we just need to practice parallel parking and do some freeway hours, and she'll be ready for the test.

The piano tuner came on Friday.  I knew there was a pencil stuck in the grand piano, but I wasn't too surprised when he also pulled out another pencil and a sticker sheet.  It sounds much better now. 😁

That night Tessa went to a girls night with some young women, and learned that she was invited to be in the Girls Camp Presidency, so she was very excited about that.  She had earlier been added to a group chat with the leaders and didn't know why. :)  She likes to be involved in planning, so this is a good fit for her.

On Saturday I had my mandolin lesson and then I took Benson to his percussion lesson and then went to the post office, which had closed at 11 (10 minutes before), but the kiosk in the lobby was available, but there was a line, so I waited for thirty minutes to get my package labeled and stamps purchased, and then quickly went to Tom Thumb to get some fruit for Sunday before I had to go pick up Benson, after which we went home and tidied up a bit before five of Benson's friends came over to start a Dungeons and Dragons adventure.  The rest of the day was much slower, as Tessa and I hung out in my room while the boys created characters and whatever else for five hours.  I did some lesson prep, reading, and took a nap, and Tessa worked on a diamond art thing she was given, and it was a nice afternoon.  I made chili for dinner, knowing there would be leftovers to freeze for later--and there was a LOT.  We just don't go through as much food as we used to!

We're still appreciating our new 10:30 church start time.  I really liked all the songs we sang--not anything new, but the words really resonated with me.  (Hymns 72: "Ponder anew what the Almighty can do, who with his love doth befriend thee," 195: "'Thy will, O God, not mine be done,' adorned his mortal life," and 45: "Give me faith, the greater knowledge; Father bless me as I pray.")  We ended with "If You Could Hie to Kolob," which Tessa and Benson did not remember ever hearing before, and they thought it was a pretty quirky song--which it is, but also interesting.

Our Young Women classes changed this week--we split from two groups into three, which will be a benefit in many ways, but was unexpected for the girls until Wednesday when we announced it.  Sister Hicken and I will be with the middle age girls (formerly known as Mia Maids).  Tessa is still with the older girls.  I could tell on Wednesday that some (in my group, in particular, who had been looking forward to moving up and were now not) were sad about the changes.  So I wanted to make it so the girls were glad they were in our class, and I brought a fruit tray and made it all fancy, and also brought fake fruit in a fancy bowl to represent Satan's counterfeit, as the lesson was on Moses 1 and Abraham 3.  They got to eat fruit while we had the lesson.  We talked about how we can recognize the Spirit in our lives, and I made a handout (!) which I think the girls appreciated.  So I think we're off to a good start.

Choir started back up after a few weeks off after church.  We had a potluck lunch beforehand (I brought fruit! 😁) and I'm excited because I don't have to accompany for a couple months--there are other songs being done on the organ and with another pianist.  I already have the songs I'm doing (for March and April, I believe), and they're not too hard--hooray!  After choir, we (Tessa and I) had a short break before going to the church for a Spanish class.  The area leaders (I think) have asked everyone to learn a language--for many that is learning English, but for even more of us, learning Spanish would be very beneficial, so the Stake called some teachers and they held their first class and a lot of us came!  There's not a set course for teaching Spanish, so they're using the materials they use in the MTC.  It will be interesting to see how things progress each week.  

Directly after the Spanish class, Tessa drove us to the Stake Center for a camp planning meeting, and now she's even more excited to be involved.  I left her there (she had arranged a ride home) and headed home so Benson wouldn't have to be alone anymore (though he had kept busy organizing his D and D stuff and making brownies), and I made a huge batch of spaghetti sauce and meatballs--from scratch!  Again, I planned on having extra for freezing for later, which will help on busy nights.  The meatballs were so much better than the ones I usually buy--so I have to decide if the effort was worth it.  Benson and Tessa say yes.

Well, I think that about covers it.  If I sit here long enough, I can think of a decent amount of things to say in the end. 😉  I hope you're enjoying getting to know your new companion, the work is moving forward, and that jolly old Germany is treating you well!

Love you!
Mom

Sunset!

Our neighborhood pond in January: